if we ever stop talking, sing me a song
'But that isn't what you said.' Ever studiously points out. Sex was supposed to be pleasurable, and from now until Ever found out if it was, he would be worried that he was wrong and strange preemptively. Tobi gives Finn's fingers a gentle pulse of reassurance, one that she sends through the attuned bond towards their son as well. This was difficult, but both Finn and Ever were doing fairly well all things considered.
"I understand. Is there a time I could watch? Or...?" Not knowing how to phrase any other situations wherein sexual or affectionate instances might take place, Ever lets the sentence trail away before continuing. "That way I could learn. Or are there other resources?" Again, Tobi has to stop herself from laughing, only this time she looks up at the ceiling instead and closes her eyes.
"There is a lot of misinformation about sex, so you need to be careful." She begins in a voice that threatens to tremble with amusement. Finn is likely horrified, but gods, she just can't help it. "But you are still very young, and because sex can result in pregnancy and can complicate relationships, it isn't something you should be worried about yet. When you're older maybe we can revisit this conversation and talk about different resources?"
Hopefully when you're 80 or so?
"I understand. Is there a time I could watch? Or...?" Not knowing how to phrase any other situations wherein sexual or affectionate instances might take place, Ever lets the sentence trail away before continuing. "That way I could learn. Or are there other resources?" Again, Tobi has to stop herself from laughing, only this time she looks up at the ceiling instead and closes her eyes.
"There is a lot of misinformation about sex, so you need to be careful." She begins in a voice that threatens to tremble with amusement. Finn is likely horrified, but gods, she just can't help it. "But you are still very young, and because sex can result in pregnancy and can complicate relationships, it isn't something you should be worried about yet. When you're older maybe we can revisit this conversation and talk about different resources?"
Hopefully when you're 80 or so?
October
